Be aware that not everyone deserves to be present in your life, you have to take your time to know all types of people in to your surrounding that you shouldn`t trust. Your family will always be your family but, your friends won`t always be your friends. Once you have to make the decisions about whom you are going to trust and walk with on your path. These decisions should be made wisely that benefit your life. In fact, never trusting of some people and getting them out of your life is an important skill have to learn. You may deal with a lot of people in good faith and think that they love you and then you discover that they are referred to be as “fake”. Also, they don`t want you better than them and talk badly about you behind your back. Moreover, their continued presence in your life will bring troubles. Here are 5 types of these people that you shouldn`t trust them and getting them out of your life if it`s necessary.
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1. The Gossiper.
Key traits:
Spreading imitate or private rumors or facts about friends.
Constantly seeks for people`s information about major life events and enjoy spilling it to others.
How to Deal:
Illustrating to him/her that you are accepting everybody on their different personalities and their outward appearance.
Avoid the conversations where him/her takes badly about others.
Facing the gossiper directly and ask to change the topic.
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2. The Contingently Happy Friend.
Key traits:
- This person won’t be a source of your strength when you are in need.
- They will only enjoy hearing about your problems and how badly your life will be.
- They doesn`t want success for you because they suffer from lose-confidence in themselves and seek to strength confidence of themselves.
- Won’t support you when you do something new.
How to deal:
Don`t take this personally and try to ignore all their behaviors. At the same time, try to help them to overcome their loss of self-confidence. Don`t talk about your accomplishments, your work and even your ups and downs in front of them.
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3. The Judgmental Friend.
Key traits:
- The judgment friends make your life worst and go on about your day.
- Don`t happy for you because they maybe aren`t happy in their lives.
- Judge on you all the time and even they don`t realize that they do it but, they`ve just doing it for so long that they don`t know other way to live.
How to Deal:
At first, you must be fully aware that their criticism or speech that directed at you is a just personal opinions of an individual that isn`t necessarily true. Avoid them off and not pay attention to their criticisms and ridicules. just walk away from them.
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4. The social Climber.
Key traits:
- This person works to achieve his goals and needs by various of ways that are illegal and far from values and principles.
- For his goal he exploits his relationship with others to reach to he wants, considering that his behavior a smart practice.
- He appears in many faces he looks like chameleon for example you can see him cry and rest when he feels threatened whereas he feels superior he turns into an aggressive and cruel person.
How to deal:
Be careful from him and don`t trust him. Try to avoid talking about your work, your points of strength and weakness in front of him because he will exploit them to his advantage without you even realize him. Don`t allow him to break down your boundaries.
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5. The Over- Promiser.
- Doesn`t have the things to serve to you and even don`t have the space in his live so it makes it difficult to be a real friend that can trust.
- If you looking for his personality in deeper you will find that this person is carrying an excess emotions to promise you many things but , doesn't deliver them.
How to Deal:
Firstly don`t request and expect a lot from him. Give this person space to express want . never share anything emotionally voluble with him. Stop feeling him that you are being the only victim of an unbalanced friendship.
After reading this article I am sure that you will be a careful when chosen your friends because word "friend " means someone who trust you and you trust him. Someone who shares you everything in your life and be happy when you are happy and feel sad when you sad. I hope that everyone has real friends that support you and be your strengths in this life.